Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of all our hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, our strength and our redeemer (Psalm 19:14).

Monday, March 7, 2016

The Fourth Sunday in Lent - March 6

Unconditional Forgiveness
2 Corinthians 5:16-21
Luke 15:1-3, 11b-32

Last week I mentioned how well the words of the Ash Wednesday liturgy capture the meaning of Lent.  But there are some words in that liturgy that often give me pause.  We all say the sweeping and profound Litany of Penitence, naming the many ways we sinfully fall short of God’s hope for us.  The litany is followed by the absolution where we affirm that God “pardons and absolves all those who truly repent, and with sincere hearts believe his holy Gospel.”

Those who “truly” repent and those whose faith is “sincere.”  Those words make God’s pardon sound conditional.  Not only must we repent, we must “truly” repent and we must have sincere faith, as well.  We have to meet those conditions before God forgives or absolves.  And how true must our repentance be?  How do we measure the sincerity of our faith?  How do we know if we’ve met God’s conditions?  The idea that God’s forgiveness is conditional on some standard we must meet troubles me.

Today’s epistle and Gospel readings suggest God’s forgiveness is unconditional.

Unconditional forgiveness.  What do you think about unconditional forgiveness?

The Ash Wednesday absolution always makes anxious, worrying about what criteria are necessary to qualify for God’s forgiveness.  But I am also uncomfortable in the world of unconditional forgiveness.  Unconditional.  Forgiveness given by God without any requirements, conditions, or expectations for that forgiveness.

Looking first at the epistle.  Paul’s relationship with the church in Corinth is troubled.  It’s become personal.  They have challenged his ministry and his authority; he has written back expressing hurt and defending his ministry.  Everybody feels hurt and wronged.  Some of the really puffed up disciples in Corinth commend Paul’s chastisement (of others) but rebuke his gentleness at the same time.  He can’t win.

In the midst of this very messy situation, Paul writes this meditation on forgiveness and grace that we heard this morning.  It’s a meditation on God’s grace and forgiveness.  Remember this line in particular, “in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them.”  Not counting their trespass against them.

What follows is my second-hand interpretation of a summary of a theologian’s reflection on God’s forgiveness (David E. Frederickson summarizing John D. Caputo HERE).  Paul talks about no longer looking at the world from a human point of view.  There are two ways to think about forgiveness:  the human way and the divine way that Paul is describing in this passage.

The human view of forgiveness depends on reasons, excuses, or confession;  it is conditional.  These conditions in a sense “buy” back the debt incurred through the injury.  The wrong doer confesses, explains, compensates and then forgiveness is granted.  It’s a transaction that depends upon the sinner meeting the required conditions.  God’s forgiveness, however, seeks to exist apart from any economic consideration. It seeks to be pure and absolute. Its logic, against the logic of common sense, demands that only the unforgivable can be forgiven, only that which is not forgotten, blotted out, cleansed, or purified, can be given back to the wrong doer as a gift with no strings attached. If one is moved to forgive based on the repentance of the offender or some proclivity of the sinner which excuses the wrong then it ceases to be forgiveness. Likewise, forgiveness offered because it heals the one who forgives (which may indeed happen) is no longer forgiveness in the strict sense. Forgiveness requires there be no reason for it. It must be a pure gift.

The human way of looking at forgiveness is as a transaction, conditional.  For God, it is pure gift.  Forgiveness is given by God purely out of God’s love and mercy.  There are no conditions.  You don’t have to earn it or qualify for it.  You don’t even have to want it.  God gives forgiveness unconditionally.  Which is to say God forgives murderers, even if they don’t seek forgiveness.  It can be an uncomfortable idea, this unconditional forgiveness.

But we live in this new creation, Paul says.  Christ brought a new creation where God’s grace and forgiveness are truly given unconditionally.  And furthermore, Paul says, we are not just recipients of this grace and forgiveness, but participants in this new creation, participants in offering God’s unconditional grace and forgiveness to others.

So what do you think about unconditional forgiveness?  What do you think of God squandering forgiveness on people who don’t deserve it, who may not even want it?  What do you think of God wasting forgiveness, apparently without a thought?  What do you think of a God who gives forgiveness away like a prodigal?

To waste or squander without thought of value.  That’s what prodigal means.  God forgives prodigally.

The Gospel reading today is the familiar parable of the prodigal son.  But note the context.  Jesus is eating with sinners and tax collectors.  And the religious authorities are grumbling. “This fellow welcomes sinners and eats with them.”   And the Scriptures don’t say that the sinners needed to confess first, or be purified, or meet any other conditions.  Jesus ate with sinners and tax collectors.

The parable is told as a response to the discomfort of the religious authorities to Jesus’ unconditionally sharing a meal with people who were not worthy.

And, technically, it’s not clear that the prodigal son ever actually repented.  His return could be just another scheme to get money and food out of his father.  I’ll tell him this, the son says…  maybe that will work.  Or maybe his was truly penitent.  We can’t know.  But in the parable the father runs out to greet him, embraces him and welcomes him before the son has said a word.  Unconditional forgiveness.

So what do you think about unconditional forgiveness?

It’s very comforting and reassuring to think that it’s offered to me.  God loves and forgives me unconditionally.  There isn’t some standard I have to achieve before God will forgive or bestow grace.

It’s harder, of course, to think of God offering unconditional forgiveness to everyone, to think of God prodigally squandering forgiveness on anyone and everyone.  No matter whether they deserve it or even want it.

So for me, the bottom line is that whenever we want to come him, the door is open.  Whenever you or I want to come home, the door is open wide.  There’s no password, no conditions, nothing we have to prove.  Nothing.  The table is set.  The fatted calf is prepared.  We are welcome.

And, for me, trying to hang on to the belief that the same unconditional grace and forgiveness are offered to others brings me closer to God.  Remembering God’s unconditional mercy for others brings me closer to God and enables me to at least begin to live, as Paul encourages us, as an active participant in God’s new creation.