Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of all our hearts be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, our strength and our redeemer (Psalm 19:14).

Sunday, October 23, 2016

The Twenty-third Sunday after Pentecost - October 23


Giving Thanks to God...  (with a nod to the Cubs)
Proper 25
Luke 18:9-14

“God, I thank you…” the Pharisee began.  You wouldn’t think that that phrase propelled him into a minefield.  But it did.  Sentences that begin “Thank God” often, I think, send us into minefields of misguided thanksgivings.

Those of you who regularly come to the Thanksgiving Day service know that I struggle with preaching on that day.  I find it one of the most challenging days to preach.

Not that we don’t all have very much to be thankful for. We do.  Not that we shouldn’t be thanking and praising God as long as we have breath.  We should.

It just seems like we so often thank God for the wrong things.  It’s tempting to thank God for all that seems good to us.  But we thank God for things that weren’t God’s doing.

A light-hearted example:  Tempting as it is, I don’t think it’s appropriate to thank God that the Cubs won last night. I'm celebrating, but I really don’t think God decides athletic contests.  Nor, even though it is very tempting, do I think it’s appropriate to thank God that the Cubs pushed politics completely off the front page of today’s Tribune.  Glorious as that is.

Staying somewhat lighthearted, I do think perhaps there are things to thank God for in the baseball playoffs.  Those of you who are on Facebook know that during the series with the Giants a friend of mine in San Francisco and I had a fun challenge going on Facebook.  I thank God for that friendship.  We are friends from college.  We don’t get to see each other often at all or really interact that much.  I thank God for the occasion of the playoffs as a time to celebrate and to live into our friendship a bit.  Those are thanksgivings I could offer even if the series had gone the other way.

Also, I think…  I haven’t had much time to reflect on this, but I think  it is appropriate to thank God for those White Sox fans who understand that Cubs success is not a personal affront, and there are blessings to be found in shared joy.

More seriously, so often we do thank God for selfish things.  Things that we have gained at the expense of others.  Or we thank God for things that are ours just through good fortune, not divine providence.  And when we do that, thank God for selfish things, I think we do our relationship with God more harm than good.

Although we may not use the Pharisee’s words, we often express his sentiment.  Thank God I’m not like…

Given this minefield of potentially inappropriate thanksgivings, I’m always looking for tools to guide my thankfulness.  Here’s my latest attempt to help me offer appropriate thanksgivings to God.

I want to thank God for things that help me be a more faithful Christian, for gifts that make me more faithful.  I want to thank God for the ways God helps me live more faithfully among others in the world.

Thinking about all of this has reminded me of one of my favorite prayers in the Prayer Book, a general thanksgiving among the collected prayers in the back of the book (p. 836).  In one of its intercessions we thank God for those disappointments and failures that lead us to acknowledge our dependence upon God alone. 

There are two parts of this that are important.  Note first that the prayer does not thank God for calamities or disasters, even if those provide opportunities for spiritual growth.  God does not send hardship just to make us better.  The prayer talks of disappointments and failures…  those times when my own hopes have not been fulfilled or my own skills have let me down, when my personal expectations have been disappointed.  Thank God for the times those occasions of disappointment and failure have led me to acknowledge my dependence on God alone…  for the things that really matter in life.  Thank God for the reminder that only God can provide what really matters to me.

A few more examples.  Not so much thank God for all that I have been given, opportunities and material wealth, but thank you God, for putting it in my heart to use what I have been given to help others….  Thank you, God, for leading me to use what I have to help others in need.

Or, not so much thank you God for making me a citizen of this great nation.  But thank you, God, for inspiring the citizens of this great nation to inspire this nation to be a beacon of liberty, justice and peace in the world.

So what about that Pharisee?  It’s important to remember, that by the measure of his day, the Pharisee was righteous, fulfilling or exceeding the expectations of the Law of Moses for faithful Jews.  Better prayers might have been:  Thank God for giving me the Law of Moses to lead and guide me in the way towards righteous living.  Or, thank you, God, for giving me the faith and perseverance to pursue righteousness in my life.

A few more thanksgivings:  Thank you, God, for things that lead us to feel wonder and joy.  And, thank you even more for giving us the eyes to see you, God as the source of all that is beautifully, wondrous, and loving.

Thank you, God, for this sacred meal we are about to share.  For the way it brings us into communion and closeness with you and how it sustains us in our efforts to live faithfully in the world.

Thank you God, for those gifts that help me be more faithful, know you more deeply, and serve you more faithfully in the world.

There is one thanksgiving that is always appropriate.  It concludes that thanksgiving in the back of the Prayer Book:

Above all, we thank you for your Son Jesus Christ; for the truth of his Word and the example of his life; for his steadfast obedience, by which he overcame temptation; for his dying, through which he overcame death; and for his rising to life again, in which we are raised to the life of your kingdom.

Amen.